Wednesday, October 6, 2010

"Cohabitation"

     Living together with a mate prior to marriage used to be called "living in sin."  Bon Jovi even penned a song and titled it as such.  During the hippie era back in the 70's, it became more commonplace amongst that demographic.  During that time frame, it was said that 1/3 of Americans lived together prior to marriage.  Sociologists originally felt that living together first caused a much higher divorce rate.  They have since changed their logic.  Yet some religions simply will not condone  it.
     This article in Newsweek written by Johannah Cornblatt suggests that unemployment plus a rise in poverty leads couples to live under the same set of shingles.  An analysis from the Census Bureau showed 59% of cohabitants in 2008 were employed compared to just 49% in 2010.  It is said that money, not romance encourages couples to live together.  This trend coupled with the fact that mates get to know each other better prior to marriage has our country's divorce rate at its lowest point in 40 years.
     This article caught my attention because I personally moved in with my girlfriend at the beginning of this semester simply to reduce my expenses during my collegiate life.  Over the years, I have seen divorce totally ruin some of my co-workers lives.  I for one, want to know how every aspect of the relationship feels prior to committing to a marriage.  Some things can only be found out regarding your mate while living together.  It is so important to find these things out.  If something is found out later regarding your mate that is unacceptable, it is either divorce or living the rest of your life unhappy. 

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